Interfering

Special Happy Birthday to a Great Inspirer, Anthony Ventre.

Did you know that it is ok to interfere in others lives? But how do you do it? "If I was you I wouldn't do that. I would do it this way." Have you ever said that to someone, or has someone said that to you. Whenever you get bothered by the way others do things, then it might be time to give up control. Sometimes we might give advice to someone and they don't take our advice. If that bothers you, it's because they aren't doing what "WE WANT THEM TO." That is called CONTROL. In order to loosen up we must give it up.

Understand that we are not in control of anyone Else's life. We are only in control of how we respond to the things they say or do.

Are you a Positive Interference in someones life?
When someone make a decision that you don't agree with, you can either get bitter or better.

Bitter= "Why do they have to do it that way. Why can't they ever listen to me." This person loves to give their negative view of it, when no one asked for it.
-Negative Interference

Better= "I don't' have to agree with what others do. My respect for their decision is more important then my own ulterior motives. I'm here for them in whatever decision that they make." -Positive Interference

It's ok to give your opinion on something in a respectful manner. Ask yourself, "Am I just venting how I feel or am I trying to be helpful."

MOOMBA
My Own Obstacle May Be Attitude
~Ed Agresta

Quote of the month: "A winner is a dreamer who just won't quit."