In life many people ask, “What is wrong with me? Why do I feel this way?“
Explain to them that it is ok to feel that way, but the Great news is: you don’t have to act the way you feel. So we can "Act As If."
Also use the 3 F’s by empathizing with them
Say to them:
I know how you feel.
I used to feel the same way.
But let me tell you what I found.
Story:
1st explain Act As If
2nd use the 3 F’s
3rd tell a story that pertains to their situation of someone who struggled just like they did, but made it through the adversity.
There are many great inspiring stories. Just google inspiring stories or get this book “Winning 101” by Van Couch (Given to me by the Kindhearted and Thoughtful Shannon Ashe).
Why are Grandpa’s so insightful? Because we love their stories.
Parents have a huge advantage because children love bed time stories. When children begin to struggle with the adversities in their lives, this is a perfect opportunity to change the way your child thinks and they will start changing how they feel. Right before you go to bed is the best time for a great story because it will stay in their brain longer.
“Once you show them how much you care, they’ll be willing to listen to how much you know.”
~ Author Unknown
Quote of the month: "Most of life's failures are those people who didn't realize how close they were to success when they gave up."
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hey darren!!! long time no talk! i think this post was very insightful and beneficial. i am definitely going to try this and I'm loving today's quote. keep it up!!
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