Victor vs Victim continued

You are only in control of 3 things:
Effort
Attitude
Response

You are not in control of anything else. EAR, should be the main focus when your friend or child gets upset. Whenever we point the finger at someone else for causing our child or friend to feel sad or angry, then we are teaching them to allow others to be responsible for how they feel = Victim. When we grow up and get mad at someone, we want them to apologize to us, to make us feel better = Victim. Our lives should not depend on someone else’s apology. Sometimes we may try to manipulate someone, by blowing them off or ignoring them, to let them know that we are mad at them, so they can figure out how to make “us” feel better = Victim.

It’s not about them, it’s about us allowing others to have control over our emotions. We should teach others to feel good about who they are regardless of what anyone else says = Victor. Once we start taking responsibility for our own feelings and stop blaming others for how we feel, we can then take a gigantic step forward on our quest for success = Victor.

Take life seriously without taking anything personally.

”Don’t take life too seriously, because you will never get out alive.”

Quote of the month: "Most of life's failures are those people who didn't realize how close they were to success when they gave up."