Thursday, April 16, 2009

Venting or Adapting?

When we speak of declaring a war on selfishness, we must first start with declaring a war on venting.

Venting is a selfish controlling quality.

When we vent or get angry we are really saying that, THINGS AREN'T GOING THE WAY I WANT IT TO. Here is a thought... Adapt to it.

But instead most people say, "Well that's not fair. Why did that happen?" Do you really want to know why? Or do you just wish it didn't happen? Stop spending your life getting offended. Stop thinking that it is your obligation to get angry when you don't get your way. Whether the person you are angry with is right or wrong, DOES NOT MATTER.

If you want to have inner peace, you must give up your thoughts of controlling others actions. One thing that you are in control of is adapting to it.

"You are 100% responsible for your reactions."

Quote of the month "If you want to run fast, run alone. If you want to run far, run with others."

3 comments:

Lisa Sargese said...

"When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it" Henry Ford

Lisa Sargese said...

Faith in anything, be it positive or negative, produces results....big time!

Darren Ventre said...

Thank you Lisa. No one knows that you are the drive behind my madness.