Do you allow others to torment themselves?

Special Get Well Soon and speedy recovery to Tom Ashe.
We are blessed in many different ways. But there are some who will not truly enjoy their life because of the bitterness and anger that lives inside of them.

Some people complain and wallow to their close friends and family members about who they're mad at, who hurt them, who is dating who, who is treating who poorly, how others are living their lives, who did this and who did that. Are you anxious to hear the next bit of gossip? If so, then you may be part of the problem.

Some people are the biggest negative influence in their own life. When you cater to them feeling sorry for themselves then you are supporting self pity feelings. When people complain, most of the time it is a cry for help. What they are really saying is, "I am having a hard time dealing with these issues." In which case they may need your help.

How do you help them? Check back tomorrow
Do you rise and shine? Or do you rise and whine?
Quote of the month: "If you focus on results, you will never change. If you focus on change, you will get results." ~Jack Dixon